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Sylvia Plath was an American poet, novelist, and short-story writer. Born in Boston Plath's father was an entomologist and a professor of biology at Boston . Plath first met poet Ted Hughes on February 25, , at a party in Cambridge . By contrast, her parents' relationship was famously stormy. Plath recorded that when she first met Ted Hughes at a Cambridge party, she bit. Her parents, Otto Plath and Aurelia Schober had met when Otto was the . After meeting Hughes in person, she proceeded to quote one of his poems to him.
For instance he removed: But the diaries also show that their complicated seven-year relationship was frequently happy. She wrote often about her joy in finding "the big, blasting, dangerous love". That love began at that very first meeting. Plath described Hughes as "that big, dark, hunky boy, the only one there huge enough for me".
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He kissed her "bang smash on the mouth" and ripped off her headband and earrings - "hah, I shall keep, he barked" - before she bit him on the cheek. Plath was determined to make her living as a writer, and worried about her dependence on Hughes.
Sylvia Plath and Ted Hughes meet
But, in entries that cast her more as a s homemaker than the feminist icon she became, she wrote: The last journal before her suicide, when she gassed herself in her London flat while her two toddlers slept upstairs, was destroyed by Hughes, whose next partner, Assia Wevill, also killed herself. Another Plath diary disappeared several years after her death, assumed stolen.
This year, the anniversary took on a new, tragic twist with the news of Nicholas's suicide in Alaska.Sylvia Plath documentary complete
The police investigation concluded that Dr Nicholas Hughes, a marine biologist, was "battling depression, no foul play suspected" and so closed case number It is unlikely that the year-old was thinking of his father's mistress, or his half-sister Shura, or indeed his own mother Sylvia Plath, who committed suicide inwhen he hanged himself at his home in Alaska. Suicides rarely time their demise to correspond with previous tragedies.
They struggle for as long as they can with the burden of pain, and the timing of their death is accidental. Related Articles Ted Hughes should be honoured in Poets' Corner, says Seamus Heaney 01 Dec Much has been made of the burden of pain that Nicholas Hughes, who moved to Alaska incarried from his formative years through to adulthood.
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Instead it was the death of his father from cancer in that plunged him into a sadness he never overcame. Frieda said that in her heart she had always known. Nicky was hurt more. They sub-let their London flat to the poet David Wevill and his wife Assia. Nicholas was born at Court Green in Devon on January 17and three months later was photographed in his mother's arms, alongside his sister Frieda, among the garden daffodils.
In May, the Wevills came for a weekend, and Hughes was enchanted by the striking and sophisticated Assia. When Plath confronted him over an affair that had scarcely begun, Hughes left for London and Assia.
Sylvia's mind was consumed with dreadful scenarios. She feared she wouldn't get any support from Ted, and that she would have to put Frieda and Nicholas "in an orphanage and work as a waitress". However, although Ted had abandoned his wife, he would never abandon his children. In December, Sylvia moved back to London, and every Thursday morning at 10 Hughes would come and take the children to the zoo. Plath's suicide forced Hughes into becoming a full-time parent. He warded off Plath's mother and brother's persistent offers to bring the children up in the US and tried to minimise the children's exposure their grandmother: Assia moved in to help him raise Nicholas, who had just celebrated his first birthday, and Frieda, who was almost three.
She adapted easily to the role of stepmother, and found Ted's children docile and touching. I didn't hear of Assia and Shura's death until many months later, and I still feel acute grief at the thought of that child's life. Fay Weldon, who worked with Assia at an advertising agency, has told me of the suffering that she saw Assia going through after she returned to London, as people blamed her for Sylvia's suicide, and turned their backs on her, and how Ted, although already preparing to marry Carol Orchard, was making vague promises of setting up house with Assia and Shura.
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The dedication to Assia and Shura of Ted's Crow poems demonstrates the anguish he was suffering after their death. He talked to me, a year before their publication inof an image he had, of a man sitting in the desert, holding a loaded gun with only one bullet.
There is a black bird sitting in a nearby tree, and the man cannot decide whether to shoot the bird or himself. There are many biographies of Ted and Sylvia, but barely a mention of the life and death of Shura. She was a child who was conceived in a doom-laden relationship, lived a life of confusion, with a deeply depressed mother, and died what must have been a terrible death.
The more one learns of these events, the more the whole thing assumes the proportions of a Greek tragedy. The life that Sylvia and Ted had decided upon at Court Green, of working poets, not to be seduced by the lure of literary London, bringing up their children, growing vegetables and keeping bees, was only a dream for Sylvia, as it turned out.
She had shown me round the house and garden when we first met, and told me of their plans to have five children, to write, to cook, to be part of a rural community, and to shun publicity.
She believed that Ted was committed to this plan, and the discovery that he was having an affair with a woman who was married to another poet David Wevillwas not the least bit interested in living a rural idyll, and was the exact opposite of Sylvia in personality, appearance and ambitions, felt like a complete betrayal of everything that her marriage had meant.
She felt that she had been thrown out of Eden, and could find no resting place. Her decision to go back to London in the autumn of was an attempt to recapture her earlier ambition to be a brilliant literary figure, with "a salon". With the reality of two small children, a fearsomely bitter winter, frozen water pipes, the onset of 'flu and the increasing knowledge that Ted was not coming back to her, came despair and a return of the depression which she dreaded.
She was presented with the impossibility of going on. The fact that she left a legacy of brilliant poetry, which came out of that despair, is an extraordinary irony, as the fame and recognition she craved in those last months only came after her death. After Assia's death, Ted resumed the life he had planned with Sylvia, but with his second wife, Carol.